Do you have a regular business practice that helps you reconnect with kindness?

When I talk about business practice, I mean it in the same way you have a meditation practice, a yoga practice, or a spiritual practice. You are a soulful entrepreneur and your business is an extension of you. 

Therefore, creating your own business practice is a great way to stay connected (or reconnect) and harness the kindness inside. You will feel more fulfilled in your business AND it will keep you in a high vibration to attract your perfect fit clients.

IT'S HUMAN NATURE

You know that being kind is the better option, that being understanding, generous, and sympathetic is the gold standard of human behavior. But it’s also human to find that difficult at times. If you’ve had a hard day or a disappointment, if someone cut you off or pushed in front of you in the coffee queue, it’s human nature to be irritated.

Those negative emotions feel bad and can become your habitual response.

That feels miserable.

However, there is a quick and easy meditation practice you can use to help you become more patient, accepting and kind. Meditating using the Buddhist lovingkindness meditation can switch up your patterns of acting and reacting to a whole new calmer and more positive level.

BUDDHIST LOVINGKINDNESS MEDITATION

A Loved One

  • Sit comfortably and away from distractions. Close your eyes and focus on your breathing.
  • Recall someone you love very much. Fix a picture of them in your mind. Focus all your attention, and open your heart to them.
  • Repeat silently or out loud:

"May you be happy. May you be healthy. May you be safe. May you be at ease’."

Repeat these phrases three times. When you’re done, sit quietly and feel the effect of the practice so far. Do this after each step of the meditation.

Self

  • Now picture yourself. 
  • Focus your attention on your solar plexus chakra, sacral chakra, root chakra, or yoni. Whatever area of the lower body that makes you feel grounded and connected to Mother Earth. Repeat the same mantra with all your focus:

"May you be happy. May you be healthy. May you be safe. May you be at ease’."

Repeat and rest.

Acquaintance

  • Next, picture someone you don’t know well. This might be your checker at the grocery store last night, a neighbor, or coworker in a different department. 
  • Visualize them as best you can (don’t worry about details or getting it ‘right’) and repeat:

"May you be happy. May you be healthy. May you be safe. May you be at ease’."

Repeat and rest.

Challenging Relationship

  • Finally, recall someone who really irritates you at the moment. Someone who is making your life difficult, or with whom you're struggling to communicate.
  • Visualize them, open your heart and repeat the blessing:

"May you be happy. May you be healthy. May you be safe. May you be at ease’."

Repeat and rest.

RECONNECT WITH KINDNESS PRACTICE REGULARLY

Regular practice of this meditation will make you feel calmer, more accepting, and kinder towards yourself and the people in your life, even the difficult ones!

The more you do it, the more you will replace the old negative thought patterns and reactions with positive, kinder ones.

It’s a simple yet powerful way to reconnect with kindness in your life AND in business.

When you're ready to deepen this meditation practice, there are more in-depth instructions taken from No Mud, No Lotus: The Art of Transforming Suffering, by Thich Nhat Hanh © 2014 Parallax Press in the article here.

I'd love to hear your thoughts about this beautiful business practice. Tell me about it in the comments below.

If you're unsure how to reconnect with kindness and develop a business practice that keeps you aligned, but you're inspired by the idea of leading your business with love, I invite you to book a FREE "Breakthrough to New Business Possibilities: The Feminine Way" session with me.

About the author 

Melissa Etherton

Melissa Etherton is a Sacred Business Creatrix and Mentor helping visionary women Soulpreneurs create their soul-led business that transforms the greatest challenge of their life into the greatest contribution to the world.

Melissa specializes in helping women align and embody their inner desires WITH their outer destiny. Utilizing on-purpose principles and love-based business practices that she uncovered as the missing pieces in her soulful business, she is now showing women coaches, facilitators, professionals, and feminine leaders how to build their business with aligned tools and practices.

She walks the shadow-y journey, disrupting the status quo and helping women connect with their true self and life's work.

Wholeness is the destination and your soul-led business is the vehicle!

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